As we have said in a previous article if you have been in the Church for a while you will know that there are more women members than men. This is also true in terms of the single Christians in the Church. This is good news (in a way) if you are a single Christian man but bad news (in a way) for a single Christian woman.

Encouragement for single Christian men to go Christian dating

Single Christian men need to be encouraged to take advantage of the online Christian dating websites available (such as this one). One of the things that we have observed though is that Christian men can be reluctant to admit that they may need help finding a partner. Men feel no shame in going to a job agency for them to find them their next role but when it comes to romance and dating they can be macho and not admit their need. At ChristiansUK we have seen many relationships form into something longer-lasting. These would not have happened without our site.

So how should single Christian men use a Christian dating service?

Firstly, it is vitally important to have the right attitude. It’s no good joining a site with a kind of “I’ll see how it goes” attitude. Without commitment from both sides (the searcher and the finder) any attempt to meet up with a suitable partner will not get far. This includes making sure you have made the best effort with the initial profile questions and essay answers. If these are not completely fully a single Christian woman looking at the profile will be unlikely to email you or respond to an email sent by you.

Secondly, make sure you look beyond the photos and try to see the potential in the profiles you view. Not everyone can have great pictures taken of themselves. Don’t let this put you off but look at the profile questions and essay answers to see if that person may be suitable for you. Give time to reading each profile as some people have spent a long time getting it right.